The Theory of An Ignored Message

Publié le 17 août 2015 par Jenn

Being ingored sucks. It really does. I am speaking out of a painful episode someone may have heard recently. I looked at the messages on his phone as he lamented how his conversation with a certain mistress he flirted with had changed, and you had to agonize with him. From the simple to the raunchy, to diluted, to no more… Is a journey no man should be put through. No man… Or woman for that matter, just for the purpose of balance. You always have to put yourself in the shoes of whoever it is that is ignoring you to imagine what is going through their mind about you. How intolerant they can be, and what you may (not) have done to deserve it. There you are, excited like some kid who had seen Santa, and all you want to do is spread the love. You take time, to construct a long, grammatically correct message to person x, whom you see is online. You send it, they go offline. In their mind probably saying something like; Aaargh, it’s him/her again. Cant he/she not see that I am ignoring, how dumb is he. Probably they’s share the sentiment with a friend or two whom they had already narrated to them a whole encyclopedia of you, of course in bad taste; they wouldn’t want to look bad now, would they. So the going offline is usually this tactical bitchiness they hide in their pocket hoping to put you off with, and then hours later, they sympathetically reply with a smiley, or two words. Of course by now you have complained about how you are feeling wrong and guilty for something you have no idea about, but all they give you is some thread thin excuse about how busy they are and how they have no problem with you. Doesnt mean they will stop ignoring you. After a month or so, youll get tired (Eventually), after realizing it’s not Jesus you are chasing here, and they will also notice that the scarecrow you are has disappeared from their life. Oh the ‘peace’ you bring them… That’s just how it happens. All this time, you feel like a baby looking at her mother’s breast but can’t suckle, because she has smeared some chilli all over. It hurts you, but you can’t confront them… No you cant, because if you do, the little chance they had of crawling back into your life is gone and gone with the wind. So you hold your crap together and look like you have it all figured out, when actually you don t. Then you convince yourself it was always meant to end someday, and you carry that log for as long as whoever it was that ignored you exists in your social circles and you can see them 'Online’. Well that’s the life of an ignored message. How to get out of that situation? Im still trying to figure it out… So just wait. Irvin.